Mia

Content warning: emotional and physical abuse

My ex and I met in church. We dated and moved in together. For years, I experienced physical and emotional abuse, including stalking and threats. We both embodied our church’s principles of forgiveness, and he used our religion against me to justify the abuse. We didn’t speak about those kinds of problems in my culture, so I didn’t tell anyone. I felt so ashamed but didn’t know what to do.

One day, he left to travel for a few weeks. With him out of the house, I finally confided in a church member. I moved out and stayed with a family friend for the next few months. Once I was safe, I spoke to my employer about my situation, and they told me about Casa Myrna. I called and was connected to Esteban, the Economic Stability Specialist. He and his colleagues helped me with food assistance, counseling, and financial literacy. They provided me with a laptop so that I could attend nursing school, and they helped me improve my credit score.

When I applied to the nursing program, I looked online for scholarship opportunities and found the Women’s Independence Scholarship Program (WISP). They help stop the cycle of intimate partner abuse by financial empowerment through access to education.

For my scholarship application, I created a professional portfolio with a career progression plan. I outlined the challenges that I anticipated in school and how I would navigate them. I set goals and showed how I would measure and achieve those goals.

After presenting my case, I was awarded $2,000 per semester. This money helps me cover living expenses such as housing, food and gas. I currently work part-time in administration while I attend school. I’m proud to say that this June, I will graduate from nursing school. 

I’m currently living with a friend, and I’m working toward being able to afford my own apartment. I’m excited for my new career and future.

With Casa Myrna’s support, I’ve gained stability, self-sufficiency, and peace of mind.